Forgiveness. Do you feel like forgiving someone for an action they took, or didn't take, that left you feeling hurt or sad would be like saying It's okay for them to act that way?
Do you refuse to forgive others for hurting you so you can feel righteous in your hurt? Do you tell others how unfairly you were treated looking to justify your indignation?
What I am about to say will likely get you up in arms and maybe even angry with me because the fact is you are missing the whole point of forgiveness.
Well, the person you won't forgive probably doesn't even know you feel hurt or angry! And if they have an inking something is amiss in your relationship they have no idea why.
And they also think the issue is yours and not related to anything they did.
Here is the big clue - they are right - well they are partly right. Watch the video to finally know the how, what, and why of forgiving. Then share this post and make a difference in a life that matters to you.
This video is excerpted from the course 17 Days to Amazing Relationships. Watch for its upcoming release
Ali Bierman has been a relationship expert most of her life. As a wife of 32 years, mother, psychotherapist, specialized kinesiologist, ordained metaphysical minister, author, teacher, family member and friend, she brings a unique perspective to her work. Change happens instantly in Ali's world. What takes a long time, and maybe never happens for some people, is getting ready to change.
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