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Feeling happy? 

No one and nothing outside of you can make you feel happy. Know why?  This short video tells all.

Right now, how do you feel? Happy? If not, now you know what to do to move into happiness.

So, what is your next step right now? Share it with us AND with two friends. The more happiness we spread the calmer and more loving all life becomes.

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True Happiness VS Happiness

What is the differenced between
True Happiness and Happiness?

As a happiness expert for many years I easily share why happiness matters, is in fact critical, to your well being and success all across your life.

Watch the video to discover how I discovered the facts about True Happiness and Happiness.

Got questions? Ask.

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Unhappy Women

Why Are More Women So UnHappy Every Year

Back in the 1970s Betty Friedan and Gloria Steinem launched the world-changing Feminie Movement. As the child of a working mother (in the 50s and 60s) I knew my mom worked so much harder to earn so much less than men earned. Heck, back then, for a woman to be in the work force at all was close to a miracle.

However, the results of the Feminine movement piss me off. The promised land is an illusion of millions of emanipated women worldwide and it dates back to those early "strides" in the 1970s.

I was shocked to discover that while more women hold positions in business - at all levels and in many occupations that used to be closed to our gender - every year more and more women suffer stress that leads to physical and emotional issues leaving them unhappy. And that number continues to increase

And, despite all the hoopla and books and talk shows and media attempts to hide the continuing to this day discrepancies between men and women, professionally women still earn less than men. Women of color earn even less.

Specifically, the number of unhappy women has been increasing since the women's movement ushered women into the work force - worldwide across country borders and across time.

Women working full time, in addition to professional responsibilities, take on 61% of household chores - spending at least 11 hours a week shopping for groceries and needs, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and taking care of the kids!  

For single moms, the number of hours caring for others  jumps to 100%. For many women,  add the responsibility of caring for aging parents

Juggling all those tasks raises their stress level, physically and emotionally, leading to exhaustion and overwhelm. No wonder  their happiness levels, their life satisfaction,  drops.

I created a proven program that immediately turns around that situation.

I met Cheryl when she attended one of my live classes. When she volunteered to assist my demonstration of how your thoughts create your reality, I asked her to think of an experience that frustrated her. Done - within seconds. Next I asked her to think of a situation that made her feel happy. Try as she might, she was unable to think of a situation - not a single one - that left her feeling happy.

Cheryl was a woman in her 50s who could not relate a single moment of feeling happy! Thankfully she came to me after class and asked to become a client

When Cheryl finished our first session together she called the next day all excited. You know how you hear a smile in someone's voice? She was so joyful as she exclaimed she finally knows what happiness is.

 After our second session she reported a rift between her and her adult son was healed. She had not talked with him. They had not been on speaking terms. By working with me on her own self the situation cleared.

And her healing did not stop there. After her third session she called to report the man at her work place who had been harassing her for 3 years (despite her taking legal action that failed to end the situation) he no loner bothered her! He was still there. The harassment stopped.

You see, you do not need the other person to be present to clear and resolve relationship issues. ONE person can do it alone. Note that Cheryl is not the only client who cleared a family relationship OR a romantic one alone without the other person getting involved.

I share what my research revealed in this must-watch video:

If you feel angry do not ignore this situation.

 Chances are you, or someone you know, still suffers prejudice and, I daresay, injustice, when trying to make a living. Speak up - LOUDLY and OFTEN.

And take care of yourself. 

I lost way too many friends to female cancers. Breast cancer strikes women who fail to  nurture themselves. With all the household chores and childcare and possibly also care of an aging parent (we are the sandwich generation raising kids while assisting aging parents) how can you possibly find time for what feeds you emotionally and spiritually?

And yes, sacrificing certain teeth to root canals consistently leads to some forms of breast cancer and ovarian cancers reveal a failure to give birth to your own ideas and desires and actually act on them to nourish your spirit and feed your joy.

And then there is when I created a tumor. Thankfully, not cancerous, but a tumor wrapped around your brain stem is an extremely dangerous one to remove and, indeed, my life was dramatically altered by loss of key nerves inside that tumor.

By the way, the location of a tumor reveals the area in which one fails to manifest one's own desires and goals. For me it was failing to share my writing - books, articles, and music to share on a much larger scale than I did. Even though I reached 200,000 people I can go much bigger to touch more lives.

Ladies - single moms, women without kids, grandmas - all of us need to awaken to an intolerable situation. Change only happens when numbers of us stop our silence and refuse to settle for the myriad inequalities running rampant today..

Oh yes, one more thing, the emotional make up that allows us to manage a household caring for our families and juggling all that needs doing - we are so good at that skill AND we also have a tendency to worry more than men do.

Looking for a solution to begin feeling hopeful about making a change for yourself starting right now? 

Twenty-six years ago when working in crisis care a very dangerous client cornered and attacked me leaving me with a serious brain injury. It took more than 3 years to recover  95% of how I lived previously. Within the first few months I had created a habit that I believe will serve every person, most especially unhappy stressed moms.  

Go to The Happy Share Movement  on Facebook.

Watch the movie explaining what a Happy Share is, How to do it, and, most importantly, why creating that habit will change your life. Go now. it is my gift to you.

on either site, download 7 Steps To Be Happy Now and start creating the habit of happiness now.

Something else that really bugged me - I read an article in a well-known paper some years ago. The professional woman who sent in her question wanted to know how to afford more childcare so she could continue working. The psychologist's response floored me. She advised the mom to take out a loan! The thing is, that mom was asking how to get her child care while still having extra money to continue her life style of fancy jewelry and self care extras.

What do you think about that situation? Was the mom taking care of herself AND her child in the most loving manner for both of them? Hard to know, don't you agree?

Remember that you are modeling how to live life for your children. Yes, your daughters will likely mother as you do - carrying your habits into the next generation. And your sons watch to see how to treat their wives.

Love yourself first. It is NOT selfish. It is mandatory.

Selfish is asking others to do what you want them to do. It is not doing for yourself what you want.

If you or someone you know needs assistance reclaiming their happier life, Contact me, send me a message. Let's talk.Truly, you could save their life.

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Secrets You Should Never Keep Secret

The Universe does NOT gift you healing to keep it to yourself.

When you are gifted with something that changes your world, especially the dramatic life-altering modalities, it is your duty to share those gifts so others may also grow in total wellness.

Life is about community, about sharing. Life is about love and joy. When you come from your heart, love and joy naturally flow.

Contact Ali to see if you are fit for her Founders program.

Join our Facebook group for extras and special offers. Ask questions and tell Ali what you like about the show, want more of  AND what you really want to know more about.

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Choose Happy

Happiness is a choice you make in each moment....

No one tells you to be happy. AND no one makes you unhappy. Stop blaming others for how you choose to view the world.

It's all about you. Everything in life is really all about you....

Once you remove the blocks and blinders  YOU set up so happiness seems to elude you - oh my gosh you will feel like you are flying! Well, that is how I experience happiness - regardless of what is going on in my life.

How To Be Happy Right Now

I enjoy the reputation of being the  Happiness Expert. 

Today, I am going to tell you how you can become the expert on happiness for yourself.

When you take the very specific steps taught in this video you will know how to turn any unhappy, frustrating or angry moment into one of feeling happy. And you can do it instantly! 


True happiness is possible and desirable but you cannot get there by seeking it outside yourself. You cannot add anything to get there.

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Is It Malpractice Living This Way?

You know you have tools to stop someone's pain yet you offer no help.

Have you committed a crime against your fellow man? Could you go so far as to call that lack of empathy or sharing malpractice? Watch the video to see how you can change lives - or not - depending on the choices you make.

Remember that what goes around comes around.

There is only ONE energy that creates everything and every person in existence. Everything - us too - is that single energy. Therefore, when you hurt another person, you ultimately hurt yourself.

Contact Ali to explore all about stem cells and how they can make a difference in your life or in somebody’s life who you care about.

Contact Ali to become part of her Pilot Program to stop the pain and move into wellness. Space is limited. The program will return to its full price once the Pilot Program fills.

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What Do You Want?

What do you want? Take a moment to respond. How did you phrase your desire and how do you feel about it now?

Watch the video.  Pay attention to how the information lands for you.

Share what you really and truly want with us. I will invite you to an "Ask Me Anything" Zoom call later this month.

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How To Change Your Past

You stay stuck in life, blaming other people and events for what is wrong or missing in your world.

What if what you think hurts you actually serves you  allowing you to grow in freedom, peace, and happiness? Watch the video to find why no one does anything to you. They do everything for you.

What action will you take today, starting right now to leave behind all the hurt, the anger, and the frustration? What will you do when your whole world changes - pretty much instantly when you follow the steps?

Show me documentation, not the specific details but the end result, once you complete the steps. I will invite you to a special live Zoom gathering where I will answer any questions AND, more importantly, together create the next steps to move your life forward now that you see clearly and the blocks to happiness are finally gone!

Happiness is your default way of being. Time to remove all the blocks keeping you from living a happy life! Struggle is a optional!

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Happy In Pain?

How can you even think about feeling happy when you are in pain - really serious pain? Watch the video to find your solution.

It truly is possible for you.

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