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What Is Happiness To You

What is happiness to you? The definition is personal to you. Until you take time to really figure out what your life looks like and feels like when you are, in fact, happy, then you will never know true happiness - for you.

The only happiness that makes a difference for you is the one you define for yourself - and only for yourself.

Your happiness is exactly that, your happiness.

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How You Block Happiness: 3 Common Mistakes

Do you ever wonder how you block happiness? 

Hmm. Do you know that you are the sole source of your happiness - or the lack thereof?

No one and nothing outside of you causes your degree of happiness.

If you are like most people you want to enjoy your life and live in happiness every day. Yet you take actions that stop you from reaching your happiness goal.

How many of these 3 common mistakes do you make?

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Gratitude Makes Your Brain Happy

Gratitude actually changes your brain creating happiness which then leads to more success in all areas of life.

No kidding.

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Love: The How and What of Love

​Knowing how love works - how you create and increase it in your life while connecting with others - is critical to successful relationships. AND forms the basis of Your Relationship Intelligence

Want more love in your life?

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How You Love You

How  your world looks reflects how you love yourself. How worthy are you to live your dreams? If you feel dissatisfied with your life step back to determine your relationship with you.

How is it going?

Do you have a relationship with the real you?

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Spirituality is Faith and Trust That Makes Life Work

When you know and  communicate with your Spirit then faith and trust clearly guide your life in each moment. What if you never had to guess about which choice is best for you in any  area of your life?

Every decision supports your Very Excellent Life.

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50% of Homes and 60% of Public Buildings Got It: MOLD

50% 0f homes and 60% of public buildings (think schools and offices) have mold!

That statistic shocked me even though I once had a neighbor whose house was condemned due to mold.

For the past few weeks I was ignoring all this info that kept  bombarding me about mold. I figured how could I possibly be interested in mold or want to share that info?.

I was thinking like an adolescent - you know, nothing is bothering me even if mold is present in 50% of homes and 60 % of public buildings in the US  and that 20% of the population suffers sometimes chronic mental or physical issues from its prevalence.

And then...you know I have been suffering many issues the past month - which kept me from sharing lots of cool stuff with you because being on the computer was not too possible for me.

The symptoms increased to the point I was feeling scared about declining health that had no explanation for me other than an environmental issue had inpacted me due to inhaling bad stuff.

I finally found a healthcare provider and during the intake it became abundantly clear to the interviewer and to me that I exhibited way too many symptoms of mold toxicity.

Molds are not just in our foods and air but in all kinds of places - and we don't even know it's there.

So here is the point, even if you do not think it is impacting you or your family, check out the Mold Summit while you still can. I apologize for the lateness of this info. 

I just registered for it yesterday myself. Fortunately they give you the daily talk info so you can choose what you want to listen to. And there will be a weekend, at some point, where all the talks will be available for free so I want you to know this info and make an educated choice.

Besides, the free gifts that come with registration offer priceless info on how to discover and how to protect your home and yourself from this too widespread issue.

Click here or on the image below to reach the registration page. Please take that step for you. Remember, I have ben a health fanatic for 46 years. I do everything right and I suddenly got very sick very fast because I had no clue what was going on.

Love, Light, and Joy! It is the only way to live.

Note: If you choose to invest in the program, at no extra cost to you, I may receive a referral fee. When you register you will see how you can too.

Air and Water Filters: Why You NEED Them

Air and water filters can make the difference between health and discomforts and diseases when you buy those that actually work to clean your environment.

If you think you save money by not using either filter you are fooling yourself and hurting those who depend on you to protect them

When you choose not to invest in your well being  the alternative system may come at an unfathomable price.

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The Cost of Failing to Love Yourself First

The cost of loving yourself first is extremely high. When you fail to do so the Universe steps in creating unexpected expenses you really do not desire in your life.

I am not talking nickel and dime events but hundreds to thousands of dollars. And they seem to come out of nowhere!

Which means you may or may not be prepared to handle them.

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How To Rewire Your Brain

Welcome to my world. In this brief, and I hope, eye-opening look into my world you will discover why I KNOW, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that I can help you make the difference in your life you REALLY want to make.

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Struggle Is Optional!

On June 9, 1996, while working as a psychotherapist in crisis care, a client attacked me leaving me disabled with a brain injury. To say that incident turned my life upside-down would be a gross understatement.

I recall thinking, “I am responsible for 8 lives. I cannot lose consciousness or she will surely kill me and who knows what else.”

At three times my size, she pinned me in so tightly I could not even move. And then I noticed how she pulled her body back before each swing and timed my movement to slide out of her trap.

Her repeated blows to my head impacted every system in my body.

The sixteen members of the medical team on my case either told me it was all in my head (Duh, I house my brain there!) OR there was nothing they could do to help me, “Learn to live with it,” they said unapologetically.

I knew all I had lost intellectually. My short-term memory disappeared – one week before final exams in my first year of doctoral work.

My eyes didn’t work, my hands shook (ending my design business, writing and guitar playing) and I was dizzy out the wahzoo.

Besides the pain that made migraines look like a walk in the park, Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSD) robbed me of the sleep I so desperately needed to heal.

The gift in my injury quickly revealed itself when the Universe led me to energy modalities – which I never knew existed. As I learned each specialty in an effort to heal myself (no way did I buy into the paradigm of the medical community that said I would not heal) I discovered, though I had to use my manual (lacking the memorizing ability), I was often the first student to grasp and use the concepts successfully.

I didn’t re-gain all I lost.

However, I healed to the point that I mostly reclaimed my memory, overcame the PTSD, and functioned through severe dizziness living mostly with my eyes closed for 17 months (yes, my hearing became so acute I heard air moving – or not moving when blocked by things like buildings).

I became a very successful specialized kinesiologist. My followers called me Doc Ali and my reputation spread quickly.I even resumed my guitar playing and art work.

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So you might imagine how shocked I was to find that I had developed a brain tumor that wrapped around my brain stem and top two vertebrae. We found it in 2011 though it had been growing for years.

The surgeon warned me that I might lose my ability to speak and swallow. In addition, half of my tongue, one vocal chord and other organ parts became paralyzed. Surprisingly, my strong muscles atrophied instantly!

I lost more of how I used to be.

Thankfully I learned, with the first brain issue, to look for the gifts in the situation. I found enough to list them all day long.

We take so much for granted in life – until we lose it.

I did what it took to regain my ability to speak, swallow, and walk. One huge lesson taught me that putting myself out in the world, even if I am less than perfect, is okay and people still follow me!

More than ever, my lifelong desire to serve others, to bring them to the reality of happiness as a birthright, burns within. I am here to tell you your life lies in your hands – well, in your head and how you run it.

I can show you why struggle is optional. Been there. Still doing it.

​I made this video when I was in the early stages of recovering my speech. The message is timeless.

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