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Love and Community

Love and community - you cannot have one without first building the other. We can no longer survive, let alone thrive, until we become interdependent. 

What is interdependent?

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Happiness – It Is What You Want

The point of life is living in happiness. Everything you do targets the end goal of enjoying life - feeling good, at peace, healthy, and successful.

The problem is you have it all backwards! None of those things cause happiness.

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Rewire Your Brain – For Life

The only way to create the future you really want is to rewire your brain. To change your life you must break the old networks and create new ones. 

Are you stuck in the same frustrating life day after day? Do you desperately state affirmations that never seem to work? 

Is change even possible for you?

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True Happiness Is…

​True happiness - it's what we want in life, yes? ​ ​We do things we may not like so we can earn the money and the time and get the energy to buy and do things that make us happy.

Only that definition of happiness totally misses the point.

​Circumstances are unrelated to happiness.​

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Affirmations Always Work

​Affirmations always work. Your world looks like it does because of the affirmations you tell yourself every single day.

Only you have no clue you do it.

The affirmations that you think do not work absolutely cannot work as you desire because of how you say them.

However, those that do work - the ones that keep you stuck in a stressful job, that keep you awake worried about how you re going to pay your bills or lose that weight the doctor told you must come off --those affirmations work beautifully day in and day out

Wondering why?

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Personal Meaning Quotient PMQ

Your Personal Meaning Quotient reveals how ardently and appropriately you desire a result. Only life goals with a PMQ of 100 will manifest.

When you determine what you want your life to look like, and you know the details that make your world look that way, nothing can stop you if-and this is a big if-your goals meet your Personal Meaning Quotient (PMQ) at 100.

What is your PMQ? Think about some of the goals you have achieved in your life. Then think about some goals you failed to achieve-even though you have been working on them for a long time-maybe even years.

Why did you achieve those goals you first thought about? Why did you fail to achieve the second group? 

Think about those you did achieve. Did anyone have to prod you? Did anyone threaten you if you did not make them work? Did anything outside of you cause you to realize those goals? Did you even write them down? Did you do affirmations to make them work? 

Take a minute to determine the difference, in how you lived your life that allowed you to succeed sometimes but not other times.
 

Your result always, without fail, depends on whether or not your goals have a PMQ of 100. If attaining a goal means the world to you, if living the life that achieving that goal brings means everything to you and you cannot be happy unless you achieve it-then that goal has a PMQ of 100. 

You will do everything and anything it take to realize any goal with a PMQ of 100. Anything! You will become unstoppable. Regardless of the size or number of obstacles that appear on your path, you will absolutely achieve every goal with a PMQ of 100.

Well, what if your goal has a PMQ of 99? You may achieve it but then you may not. The difference between 99 and 100 is a doubt or fear. It takes but a fleeting moment of hesitation to let an obstacle stop your forward movement. Once the momentum stops it takes everything you've got to get going again. 

A PMQ of 99 may not feed you what you need to go over, under, around or through that obstacle. Like a derailed train-your trip will end right there and then. 

So how do you determine your PMQ? When you think about your goal, notice how you feel. Do you get excited? Does adrenaline shoot through your body? Can you feel emotions of sheer joy-even tearful joy? Does your heart sing?

When your goal has a PMQ at 100 you feel it in your body-quite literally. Oh, by the way, to be at 100 PMQ, that goal must be something for you personally. Yes, your achieving it may allow you to provide something every special for someone or something else. But the goal itself must be something you do for you, something that will change you somehow. 

Every goal at PMQ 100 moves you, as a person, to a higher place and to a higher frequency. 

Life is who you become.

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Power of the Spirit

I made this Times of Your Life clock to celebrate my mom's 80th birthday.  Captured precious moments featuring family members and special occasions highlight and honor the life of Edie Bierman.

The Spirit lives as a whole and perfect entity despite appearances.

Here is how I know.

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Today I Honor My Mom

Today marks the anniversary of my Mom's birth. She painfully transitioned off this plane nineteen years ago. Hers was a life to celebrate and so I share my story with you.

Why? 

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How To Be Happy NOW

E​ver wonder how to be happy now? I mean right this minute, can you make yourself happy in a way that changes your body chemistry and actually leaves you feeling and living in happiness?

You can when you know how to run your body-mind-spirit.

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The Voice Inside Your Head

 You have a little voice inside your head that chatters almost non-stop. Almost every person experiences the same thing.

You are not crazy!

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