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True Happiness Is…

​True happiness - it's what we want in life, yes? ​ ​We do things we may not like so we can earn the money and the time and get the energy to buy and do things that make us happy.

Only that definition of happiness totally misses the point.

​Circumstances are unrelated to happiness.​

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Affirmations Always Work

​Affirmations always work. Your world looks like it does because of the affirmations you tell yourself every single day.

Only you have no clue you do it.

The affirmations that you think do not work absolutely cannot work as you desire because of how you say them.

However, those that do work - the ones that keep you stuck in a stressful job, that keep you awake worried about how you re going to pay your bills or lose that weight the doctor told you must come off --those affirmations work beautifully day in and day out

Wondering why?

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Personal Meaning Quotient PMQ

Your Personal Meaning Quotient reveals how ardently and appropriately you desire a result. Only life goals with a PMQ of 100 will manifest.

When you determine what you want your life to look like, and you know the details that make your world look that way, nothing can stop you if-and this is a big if-your goals meet your Personal Meaning Quotient (PMQ) at 100.

What is your PMQ? Think about some of the goals you have achieved in your life. Then think about some goals you failed to achieve-even though you have been working on them for a long time-maybe even years.

Why did you achieve those goals you first thought about? Why did you fail to achieve the second group? 

Think about those you did achieve. Did anyone have to prod you? Did anyone threaten you if you did not make them work? Did anything outside of you cause you to realize those goals? Did you even write them down? Did you do affirmations to make them work? 

Take a minute to determine the difference, in how you lived your life that allowed you to succeed sometimes but not other times.
 

Your result always, without fail, depends on whether or not your goals have a PMQ of 100. If attaining a goal means the world to you, if living the life that achieving that goal brings means everything to you and you cannot be happy unless you achieve it-then that goal has a PMQ of 100. 

You will do everything and anything it take to realize any goal with a PMQ of 100. Anything! You will become unstoppable. Regardless of the size or number of obstacles that appear on your path, you will absolutely achieve every goal with a PMQ of 100.

Well, what if your goal has a PMQ of 99? You may achieve it but then you may not. The difference between 99 and 100 is a doubt or fear. It takes but a fleeting moment of hesitation to let an obstacle stop your forward movement. Once the momentum stops it takes everything you've got to get going again. 

A PMQ of 99 may not feed you what you need to go over, under, around or through that obstacle. Like a derailed train-your trip will end right there and then. 

So how do you determine your PMQ? When you think about your goal, notice how you feel. Do you get excited? Does adrenaline shoot through your body? Can you feel emotions of sheer joy-even tearful joy? Does your heart sing?

When your goal has a PMQ at 100 you feel it in your body-quite literally. Oh, by the way, to be at 100 PMQ, that goal must be something for you personally. Yes, your achieving it may allow you to provide something every special for someone or something else. But the goal itself must be something you do for you, something that will change you somehow. 

Every goal at PMQ 100 moves you, as a person, to a higher place and to a higher frequency. 

Life is who you become.

Gratitude and Desire: Partners or Enemies

Gratitude and desire - are they partners or enemies in your world? How do you choose to practice each in your life OR do you only honor one?

Can you really practice both gratitude AND desire?  

Don't they conflict?

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Who Said What?

You won the prize if you correctly matched the author to the speaker.

Dr. Seuss


Albert Einstein

Abraham Lincoln

Plato

  • You're on your own. And you know what you know, and YOU are the only one who gets to decide where to go.
  • Reality is but an illusion albeit it a persistent one.
  • People are as happy as they think themselves to be.
  • How can you prove whether at this moment we are sleeping, and all our thoughts are a dream, or whether we are awake, and talking to one another in the waking state?
  • How Does Your Garden Grow?

    ​ How does your garden of life grow? Does your path lead to your desired destination? If not then why not? ​

    ​How you tend to growing fruits, vegetables and flowers ​reflects the way you tend to your life.

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    Be Do Have: Life Success Formula

    Be, do, have, life success formula,  shows you the only way to live your life your way. No matter how much you say you want to change, no matter how many programs you buy, no matter how many webinars and seminars you attend, until you apply this formula nothing will change.

    You stay stuck for one very simple reason.

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    Gratitude Makes Your Brain Happy

    Gratitude actually changes your brain creating happiness which then leads to more success in all areas of life.

    No kidding.

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    How To Rewire Your Brain

    Welcome to my world. In this brief, and I hope, eye-opening look into my world you will discover why I KNOW, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that I can help you make the difference in your life you REALLY want to make.

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    Struggle Is Optional!

    On June 9, 1996, while working as a psychotherapist in crisis care, a client attacked me leaving me disabled with a brain injury. To say that incident turned my life upside-down would be a gross understatement.

    I recall thinking, “I am responsible for 8 lives. I cannot lose consciousness or she will surely kill me and who knows what else.”

    At three times my size, she pinned me in so tightly I could not even move. And then I noticed how she pulled her body back before each swing and timed my movement to slide out of her trap.

    Her repeated blows to my head impacted every system in my body.

    The sixteen members of the medical team on my case either told me it was all in my head (Duh, I house my brain there!) OR there was nothing they could do to help me, “Learn to live with it,” they said unapologetically.

    I knew all I had lost intellectually. My short-term memory disappeared – one week before final exams in my first year of doctoral work.

    My eyes didn’t work, my hands shook (ending my design business, writing and guitar playing) and I was dizzy out the wahzoo.

    Besides the pain that made migraines look like a walk in the park, Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSD) robbed me of the sleep I so desperately needed to heal.

    The gift in my injury quickly revealed itself when the Universe led me to energy modalities – which I never knew existed. As I learned each specialty in an effort to heal myself (no way did I buy into the paradigm of the medical community that said I would not heal) I discovered, though I had to use my manual (lacking the memorizing ability), I was often the first student to grasp and use the concepts successfully.

    I didn’t re-gain all I lost.

    However, I healed to the point that I mostly reclaimed my memory, overcame the PTSD, and functioned through severe dizziness living mostly with my eyes closed for 17 months (yes, my hearing became so acute I heard air moving – or not moving when blocked by things like buildings).

    I became a very successful specialized kinesiologist. My followers called me Doc Ali and my reputation spread quickly.I even resumed my guitar playing and art work.

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    So you might imagine how shocked I was to find that I had developed a brain tumor that wrapped around my brain stem and top two vertebrae. We found it in 2011 though it had been growing for years.

    The surgeon warned me that I might lose my ability to speak and swallow. In addition, half of my tongue, one vocal chord and other organ parts became paralyzed. Surprisingly, my strong muscles atrophied instantly!

    I lost more of how I used to be.

    Thankfully I learned, with the first brain issue, to look for the gifts in the situation. I found enough to list them all day long.

    We take so much for granted in life – until we lose it.

    I did what it took to regain my ability to speak, swallow, and walk. One huge lesson taught me that putting myself out in the world, even if I am less than perfect, is okay and people still follow me!

    More than ever, my lifelong desire to serve others, to bring them to the reality of happiness as a birthright, burns within. I am here to tell you your life lies in your hands – well, in your head and how you run it.

    I can show you why struggle is optional. Been there. Still doing it.

    ​I made this video when I was in the early stages of recovering my speech. The message is timeless.

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