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What People REALLY Want From You

In part one we saw what matters most in gift giving. Now let's go to the next level.

What people really want most from you is, well, you. 

They want, and they deserve to know the very best you that you can be. 

They want that for their relationship with you and, more importantly, they want you to live your Very Excellent Life for you.

Given that gem of deep truth, what action are you now taking to love yourself first? Remember, loving yourself first is not selfish. It is mandatory. You cannot give what you do not have.

I recommend starting here. Something here is calling to you. Your turn to respond. Staying stuck in ho hum , settling for mediocrity, is a choice you make. Thriving is an alternate choice.

What are you waiting for?

What People REALLY Want for the Holidays

What people really want for the holidays fulfills both an immediate and forever need.

It is not what you think.

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Shocking Truth

Last weekend I hosted one of my favorite kinds of holiday parties. I asked guests to bring a dish to share that was a traditional dish in their families at this season. In past years my guests excitedly shared both the tradition of their dish as well as the yummy food.

Living in a melting pot of cultures always made the event one of surprising delights and heart-warming stories.

So I was shocked how differently this year's event ran.

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The Gifts You Missed

Eat, Drink and Be Merry This Holiday Season

'Tis the season to celebrate with family and friends. That means yummy eats AND treats to drink.

What a joy - finding Kami’s video guide to perfectly complement my Christmas Art To Eat recipe book. Click on the snowmen party to get Ali's Ebook at a very special no-brainer price.

Holiday Sculptures you can eat? They taste great, are so easy to make AND they are good for you (but don't tell anyone).


And the ebook comes with step-by-step photos as well as a BONUS video to get you through the challenge of making a sweet bread dough.

Ah, but don't stop there.

When you eat you get thirsty, yes? So what are you gonna do about that?

In this online video course, Kami walks you through the specific real life steps that she's used to help hundreds of families love and embrace their Herbal Tea Home Hydration Station.

Learn tips and tricks to get the most nutritional value out of your herbal brews

How to create healing herbal teas that you will love to drink

Learn the exact strategy that Kami developed to help people transition from sodas and sugar drinks to healthy, healing, mineral rich, herbal drinks

Learn exactly what to do to turn your teas into delicious party drinks

Learn the exact strategies that Kami's students use to get family members drinking healthy, healing, mineral rich herbal teas while ditching the sodas and sugar drinks

Every mom deserves to have natural remedy know-how to raise a healthy family, but you don’t want to be the natural remedy lone ranger, do you?


As you know, you can’t shove health down your family’s throat (did you ever try to do that, right, it doesn’t work). But there are some things you can do to transition them into it that are painless and not so in their face… 

You can’t make them be interested in health, but what you can do is learn to make yummy herbal drinks that they love that over time win them over and eventually they start asking for the herbal teas and drinks themselves!

This is where the herbal tea kick start guide comes in.

And the big question is, if herbal teas aren’t part of your daily life? How are your kids going to learn to take care of themselves?

Click on the yummy drinks to start Tami's program today and save $50. Oh, and wait until you see the  super gift Kami shares with your purchase today. Hint: This looks like one gift BUT it is actually...click to see the surprise.

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Click the drinks to Start Today

Still here? What are you waiting for? Begin your fun adventure and tease your tastebuds NOW.

Stress Reducing Objects

​What’s your go-to object to reduce stress or heighten happiness and success? Mine is daffodils - yellow daffodils.

​Daffodils are very special to me - always have been.


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Quickly Boost Your Love Hormone

​Quickly boost your love hormone with a telephone call. A soothing voice trumps texts and emails every time, reducing stress hormones and boosting oxytocin. Science actualy bears out the fact that texts and emails fall far short, to the point of ineffectiveness, in reducing stress hormones and their impact.

Why do phone calls soothe us?


When you go through a tough experience or feel scared what is your initial choice of action? Do you react and get riled up? Do you jump up and down? Do you rant and rage? Or do you suck it up and hide how you actually feel?

Watch the video for advice that can disperse the tension, reduce the worry, and give you the confidence and calm to move ahead with your day.

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Responsibility OR Response Ability

What does responsibility mean? How do you act in a responsible manner? What are you responsible for? To whom are you responsible?

OR are you REALLY Response Able?

Click to find out the difference between being responsible and response able

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How Do You Handle A Crisis?

They call it a crisis because you do not expect what happened to happen to you!


So what do you do? Who do you become in a crisis situation? Does a previously unknown part of you jump into action? Do you hold back and wait for someone else to tell you what to do? Do you curl up into a ball of fear?

We've been talking about who you REALLY are. Well, a crisis reveals the REAL  you.

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The Happiness Myth

Happiness - it's a myth. Well, it is and it isn't.

You probably think that happiness is a personal feeling that each individual defines for himself or herself. Am I right? 

Do you have your own definition of what it means to be happy?

How do you know when you are actually happy? What does your world look like? Where are you? What do you do each day? Who is with you?

The fact is that happiness has one and only one definition.

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