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Reset your mind to match who you really want to be, do and have. Life does not begin at birth. Who you are starts in utero. When you emerge into the world you already have a personality - and a whole lot more than you think.

So how do you become you?

​Seeing is believing?

The way you see your world, yourself and the people and events in it, has nothing to do with what you perceive with your eyes. ​

What impacts your vision in ways that run your life?

​Transformation vs change. What's the difference? When you make changes does your life, in fact, change in any significant and PERMANENT way?

​Forget the temporary fixes that do not work. 

​Ready for your permanent life overhaul?

​Love languages vary from person to person. What you need to know that you are loved is probably very different from what your partner or family members or friends need to feel loved.

Consequently all of your important relationships may feel rocky because you and those you care about speak different love languages. Neither of you feels truly loved by the other. Is that accurate?

What do I mean by love languages?

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​Quickly boost your love hormone with a telephone call. A soothing voice trumps texts and emails every time, reducing stress hormones and boosting oxytocin. Science actualy bears out the fact that texts and emails fall far short, to the point of ineffectiveness, in reducing stress hormones and their impact.

Why do phone calls soothe us?

When you go through a tough experience or feel scared what is your initial choice of action? Do you react and get riled up? Do you jump up and down? Do you rant and rage? Or do you suck it up and hide how you actually feel?

Watch the video for advice that can disperse the tension, reduce the worry, and give you the confidence and calm to move ahead with your day.

In every moment of every day you are held with Love in Light. Seriously - you are never alone. Nor are you ever subjected to life experiences without your greater good in mind.

"What the heck? So why am I so stuck and unhappy?"you ask.

The very simple explanation begins in this video.

What is Your Relationship Intelligence? How does it work?  How do your relationships create your health, happiness, and success all across your life?

This video is part 4 in a series explaining the process of how your relationships, from even before birth on up until the present, shape your world.

If you have not yet done so read and watch parts 1-3 to understand each aspect of your life that impacts all of your life. Building Your Relationship Intelligence. involves all four processes.

Today's video brings together all the pieces of how you create your life in each moment.

​Man is a social being. As humans we succeed and lead healthier, happier lives when in community than when isolated from other people.

When people ask for help, when people offer assistance without being asked, when people accommodate requests by others to help out in any situation, the sense of community builds.

Man is a social being by nature.

The more people do together the more the entire neighborhood benefits. Cooperation is automatic - built in to people. Life flows when that sharing nature is allowed to prosper freely.

An old Buddhist saying explains that, "How you do anything is how you do everything." Which means you duplicate the relationship (and other) patterns you live in any one area all across your life.

That assumption forms the basis for competency based therapy. The microcosm of the client-therapist relationship follows the same interaction styles that the client exhibits in the macrocosm that his world outside the therapy unit.

Huh?

How the client interacts with the therapist reveals the identical style the client uses in his personal and professional lives. Makes sense, right?

Each person has a unique communication style.

​Love NOW. ​You can only act in this present moment - or this one - or this one... Only the present exists.

You cannot live in the future any more than you can live in the past. Neither time exists. That is why they call the now the present! It is your gift to move your life forward in the direction of your dreams.

​Only ONE solution exists for every real or imagined issue​.

AND you can only create it NOW.
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